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  • 29 Apr 2014 - 02:38
    joybell16's picture

    My husband passed away peacefully on Resurrection Sunday 20 April to be with the Lord Jesus Christ. Had a chest infection which quickly developed into pneumonia. The swiftness of the progression stunned us all. We had a wonderful celebration of his life and our children have been brilliant. It will be hard to adjust to life without such a dynamic person. Will miss him terribly and the house is so quiet without him. Farewell.

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  • 13 Apr 2014 - 18:31
    joybell16's picture

    CA19-9 now 14000. No decrease at all during chemo. Husband has decided to cease chemo as the last 3 weeks have not been kind. Extreme fatigue, abdominal pain and DVT pain in right calf. Not sleeping very well at all. One benefit - farting has decreased dramatically!! Handing it all over to our Creator and Lord, Jesus Christ. Smile Hopefully the effects of chemo will go (if it is the effects of chemo being observed) and there might be some improvement in the short term.

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  • 7 Apr 2014 - 16:38
    felixr_cancercouncilnsw's picture

    Hi All,

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  • 5 Apr 2014 - 16:50
    Mark Ingham's picture

    Hi. My name is Mark. I am 43 years of age. I live in the inner suburbs of Melbourne, having moved from Sydney around 8 years ago. My partner’s name is Nat, and we have no children. For the last 10 years I have worked for a major health insurance company in and around their call center in lower level management and organizational roles.

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  • 29 Mar 2014 - 15:26
    smartyaligatorpants's picture

    6 months of lonliness. The days pass with exhaustion, anger, regret and fear. Time stops, speeds up and all throughout I feel lost. At times, abet few, I feel 'myself', then I am hit with the loss and am taken aback by the grief. I am frightened that time passing will take me away from this and that memories will fade.
    I am just so angry with all of this!

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  • 27 Mar 2014 - 21:09
    joybell16's picture

    Just complete 4th treatment of 12 treatment cycle. CA 19-9 result is 9600 Sad Was 1200 at diagnosis (mid Nov), 2062 at post op check up (mid Jan) and 6050 2 weeks ago (10 March) Sad Not sure what is going on but as the tumour was inoperative and has metastisized... does this mean the chemo is having no effect? Two gastric bypasses performed instead of a Whipple.

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  • 22 Mar 2014 - 19:40
    Star's picture

    its been over a year since mum passed away. in the past few months i cant even look at her pictures. when i feel sad i push it out of my mind. i feel numb when it comes to thinking of mum. is this normal to feel numb? i feel scared that if i let my self go and really feel my pain i wont handle i not letting myself grieve?

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  • 17 Mar 2014 - 22:16
    wasdedye's picture

    Well today I got a reality check for myself and it is only just sinking in.

    I had a lump in my neck which took over 6 months to diagnose to finally have it operated on the 5th feb removing my left thyroid. Turns out its cancer so have to have the other side removed on the 5th march as well but its ok as thyroid cancer is the best type to have as the prognosis in 10 years where others are about 5.

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  • 12 Mar 2014 - 19:12
    britt-j's picture

    every day seems to get harder and harder, I'm finding it tougher to cope with what has happened.

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  • 28 Feb 2014 - 12:52
    GeeGee's picture

    My boy friend has upset me so much today I am typing this with tears running down my face. He is at the hospital today and I got all ready to go with him so I can hear what the doctors have to say but he told me he didn't want me to go with him. I was stunned, all I could do was go into my room and close the door. He left without me. I feel he has shut me out completely. I get that he doesn't want to know results of his ct scans ect. but he has to know I want to know. He said he doesn't want to know results because it doesn't change anything. I disagree with that, it changes everything.

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